There was an exciting time in your relationship when you actually chose one another. It is a wonderful feeling to know that someone wants you, chooses you. Unfortunately, as the years go by and life gets in the way, we take each other for granted. That marvelous feeling of wanting, choosing, is muddled by resentment and hurt. When you see your partner today, bring with you an attitude of excitement and desire. Like renewing your vows or actually celebrating your anniversary or Valentine’s Day, express feelings of joy, desire and anticipation. Allow your partner to feel chosen all over again!

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