In order to keep the peace, many people choose to not make waves with their partner. Unfortunately, this leads to one person usually getting their way while the other acquiesces “for the good of the relationship.” Eventually, the person who has been giving in implodes and the long-term effect of keeping the peace creates a cascade of resentment. Healthy relationships require checks and balances. Holding one another accountable and each person giving in, helps to foster mutual respect and compromise.

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