How come some people cannot apologize or admit that they are wrong? A true apology is not, “I guess I am sorry, but….” It is also not, “I am sorry you feel hurt.” Marjorie Ingall, in her insightful article, “How To Say You’re Sorry” outlines characteristics of apology. • You have to take ownership of the offense, even if it makes you uncomfortable. • Acknowledge the impact of what you did. • Be real, open, and non-defensive. • Allow the wronged party to have their say. • Make reparations for what you have said or done. Too often we explain away or actually blame the other for our actions. “I’m sorry I yelled at you, but you got me so angry.” If you are the one in the relationship who struggles with admitting fault, you can actually practice the art of apologizing and unburden yourself with needing to be right. What a freeing experience to be humble and imperfect like the rest of us.